No, you can’t have my number… Pt 1

How many of you ladies have ever had to decline giving out your number to a guy when you are out. A friend and I were actually having this discussion just yesterday and came to the conclusion that there is just no nice way to turn someone down. So I interviewed a few people from all walks of life… hahahaha just kidding. I simply asked some friends and some family members to tell me how they turn down a guy. Either way, I feel as though if we give out our number, we are misleading the guy. If we do not give out our number, we are being complete snobs. So here is what everyday women have to say when a guy throws you the… “Can I get your number?”

ALL THE SINGLE LADIES

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To the nice ladies that just can’t say NO: ” YEAH! If you want be friends!” If you say this, be aware that you may actually not be so nice and sound like a complete SNOB for being so upfront! Don’t expect a friendship to blossom out of that response LOL

For all you BLUNT ladies: “NO!” Now if you are willing to be completely blunt about this, then you may just be leading to further conversation. He may just ask why and be ready to answer. You could say something like “Because your not my type”

To the woman who just can’t say no and can’t say yes, the Liar: ” I have a boyfriend” “Here is my number” (then never respond, so basically you led the poor guy!) Don’t be shy if you run into him on another social outing! HAHAHAHAHA

 RECENTLY ENGAGED WOMAN

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 To the smart mouth: “What’s my name? 9 times out of 10 they don’t remember so then I say: Sorry, maybe next time I run into you, you will remember my name”This woman is not here to play games and needs you to realize that from the beginning.

To the subtle woman yet not so subtle: ” I tuck my hair behind my ear with my left hand and say Sorry, I’m married” By you doing this, you do not want to rub it in their face that you are a taken woman already and hope that they get the hint by flashing your perfect diamond

To the sweet one: “Oh I’m sorry, Im engaged!” If you say this then you may even feel bad for saying this because something like this may come out of their mouth: “… oh”

Married and Lovin it

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The runaway woman: “I do not talk to or make eye contact with guys that I get “that” vibe from (we all know that vibe ladies). If I get that vibe, I avoid them and walk another direction. The man never gets the chance to ask me because I pick up the flirt vibe quickly”

  • By the way I just want to give a quick shout out to my friend Ciji for giving me her input. Please check out her online store and support on handmade handbags at CijiLoren

Straight to the point woman: ” I just look at them and show them my ring and say WRONG GIRL.. My husband is right there”

The show off woman: “I just show them my ring and give them a huge smile!” Expect a huge smile back. 

Now let me tell you what type of girl I am. The woman in a serious relationship. I remember once I kind of got tired of being asked out at work. So one day while I was shopping I bought myself a fake ring. I find that more often than not, a man will slowly back away from a woman who wears a ring. So that makes me a liar! Hahahahaha these days I don’t wear one anymore because I’m expecting the real thing. So guys, I hope you enjoyed this fun post. It was fun to get responses from my family members and friends. I thank them for their support and their willingness to give me a little of their time. Have a great week and I will talk to you guys soon! 

Sinceramente Jane

P.S. Spanish word of the day: Mujeres =Women …. I mean c’mon…. women are like the bomb! 

 

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Affordable Gift Ideas for Him

So today’s post, I want to talk about Valentine’s Day. I mean I know many people always talk about how it is just a day that was made to spend money and buy things. This may be true and in most cases, people probably are over spending. So I decided to make a list of  items on what I consider affordable and nice gifts. A lot of times, there will be articles that I read about “affordable” gifts for him or her and then you have these $500+ items on the lists. Like seriously… I know like many people, I have bills to pay so if I can find an gift for an affordable price, I will definitely go for the deal.

So lets take a look at some nice gifts for him. Him can be a boyfriend, husband or just a crush that you have on a guy. I personally love gifting watches. I think I have given my boyfriend all of his watches, with the exception of maybe 1 of them. I love love love, Fossil. If you are looking for a good reliable watch to gift, I would look into these. Some cool perks about Fossil is that they replace your battery usually at no fee if it dies. Right now they have an embossing/engraving promo going on until February 5. They will do this for FREE people. This just gives it that extra personal touch to that loved one. Some of my favorite looks right now are:

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GRANT CHRONOGRAPH DARK BROWN LEATHER WATCH $145
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GRANT CHRONOGRAPH NAVY LEATHER WATCH $135
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TOWNSMAN AUTOMATIC BLACK LEATHER WATCH $195

So the next item I would like to include as a gift idea for him is something that I have always wanted myself: a classic messenger bag. I am in love with those things and envy that statement piece that men get to wear with their fitted suites (walking down Wall Street).

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These are a couple of bags that I found that would go great for any business meeting, a day at the office or heading off to class.

 

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Cole Haan Leather Messenger Bag $144.99
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Kenneth Cole Reaction Come Bag Soon $99.99

 

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My last suggestion for a gift are some amazing statement sunnies! Spring is the next season on the agenda and what better way then to gift your man with the perfect shades! Top picks for me below:

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Ray-Ban Aviator Sunglasses $160
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Ray-Ban Men’s Square Sunglasses $67
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Carrera Rectangular Sunglasses $70

 

So these are just some thoughts to get your mind rolling on good Valentine’s Day gifts for you sweetie. I feel like sometimes women think Valentine’s Day is all about them but we can make our men feel worthy of our love that day too! Thanks for visiting my page and let me know if you liked any of the gift ideas.

Spanish word of post:  Amor= Love… After all it is the month of Love

Sinceramente Jane